confused...

i really find that it's hard to please everyone.. i want to have a nice environment where everyone is happy but how can i do.. something i juz wanna put my pt across in a straight forward manner.. i nv like to beat ard the bushes.. sigh.. having a hard time trying to repharse nicely.. haiz.. i'm not that eloquent tt i thought.. sighz.. y can't one be straightforwardz instead of putting a false front and be nice to someone tt one dislike.. sometime i mind to have conflict but itmust be constructive!! help help.. why muz i please someone when i can;t even please myself...off to sch now.. back to the joyful, mischievous galz. all prepare to go to celebrate buff's bdae...